most think that the statement, that you can love yourself unconditionally, is somehow difficult or impossible.
i think i realise why you feel this way.
it`s how you see yourself.
step outside of yourself for a moment or two and see yourself as if you were someone else.
realise that this person is a human being with feelings and hopes and dreams, and that you really desire the best for him.
do you care about what this person thinks and feels?
will you put this person at risk for some reason?
or will you spend some time each day to get to know this person more............?